Regardless of how good your student is, applying to top U.S. colleges will take more effort than buying a new home.
Parents with high expectations and a minimal understanding of how the system works find the process to be daunting to say the least. Make no mistake that your student’s high school offers college counseling but for the families who want personal and professional guidance, many are seeking additional help.
To a large degree most parents are like mine who expect nothing less than the best, especially because being from a foreign country they didn’t have all the opportunities I had. Usually the top name colleges society puts on a pedestal are the ones parents want their children to attend. And I speak with a lot of families who stay up late at night worrying about how to get their child in to UCLA, Williams, John Hopkins, Harvard or MIT.
Growing up in a middle eastern family and having many friends and family from other countries, education is the number one priority for these families. These parents are looking for their children to find a way to have their child get accepted to the most highly selective colleges they can. The caveat to this is it will not be easy to accomplish, especially if this is your first time. Parents and students are recommended to select appropriate schools, determine professional goals and make peace with the differences between American cultures and the culture of their home country.
Setting the Foundation
“Our son’s school counselor has a few hundred students to work with and we knew she may not be able to give particular attention to each individual student. Jason is a senior this year at Newbury Park high school and with his good grades we wanted to give him the best opportunity to get a good education so we hired a professional who has experience working with several families before”, says Lamia Wahba of Thousand Oaks, California. “The company helped us understand what is required to get into a good university and choose the career that matched Jason’s values and abilities”.
$2,500 to $4,000 is the typical fee for an independent counseling group which sometimes depends on how much work is to be done and the timeframe. As a rule of thumb, there are more strategic advantages to beginning in the 9th or 10th grades because these advisors have a grasp on what the colleges are looking for each year and can guide the student properly. Try choosing an advisor who has extensive knowledge on each program at the university and how to enhance the chances of getting accepted. It definitely would not hurt if that individual has a background in financial aid strategies that can decrease the amount of money your family has to pay for that education.
Advisors are familiar with the nuances of the ever-changing admission plans, such as whether it’s better to apply “early action” or in the general pool of applicants. Often times they can peel back the curtain to the decision-making processes and expose the importance of various factors such as GPA, SAT, and extracurricular activities.
Consultants urge students to distinguish themselves from the large pool of college hopefuls, most of whom have excellent grades and test scores, play musical instruments and passed all math classes the high school offers in 11th grade.
Some parents fear that participation in sports or community projects will distract students from their studies even though they may make a large impact. Whatever the case may be students must find ways to stand out. The Asian and Indian communities have a lot of competition among themselves respectively to see who can get in to the best colleges. In many cases it is thought of as not being good enough if you need an outside organization to council the family. It is important to help the student find their passion and make informative life decisions.
Do you know how to think outside the box? Let’s take for example a student who excels in a musical instrument and began composing music. What if they were to have some of his or her musical pieces published. Or how about having the student publish a book. It seems very difficult to do but in actuality there is a format that is quite simple. But not manycollege applicants are thinking about doing that sort of thing.
Doing The Right Research
If we can let a student know that based on their current scores they have a 67% chance of getting accepted to a particular college then we know how to select the rest of the list and still be competitive. Databases, such as those used by Premier College Guidance has the most comprehensive college planning tools to make choosing colleges much more precise.
How much will it cost me? That is a million dollar question many parents hate to ask because they would rather see their child get in to a good school and figure out how to pay for it later. That approach is too dangerous financially and is the old way of approaching the college process. With proprietary software that keys in on your students grades, your financial situation and the availability of free money at each college, a family can be prepared far ahead of time and know what they are expected to pay. Resources such as academic scholarships, need based grants and work study programs puts the cost of colleges into perspective for students and parents and can work on applying to the colleges that will work within their budget.
Career search programs offered by Premier College Guidance allows the student to find their footing in what direction they can take their talents in college. It is an Assessment/Aptitude Evaluation which helps students determine what skills they have and how it relates to certain industries. It then looks at starting salaries in that particular field and what the growth potential is. If the college needs more students in a particular field of study, Premier College Guidance can determine what major to select that would increase our chances of getting in. Lastly, if the student can avoid making the switch from one major to the next several times that ends up saving the family a tremendous amount of money.
Let’s Be Honest
Colleges want to build diversity but because of the various demographics that are applying to Ivy League colleges today in many ways you are not different from other students. “There is often a disconnect between the desire for prestige and the ability of students to achieve that prestige”, says Steven Roy Goodman, president of Top Colleges in Washington, D.C.
Goodman says, “There’s been exponential growth in terms of the wealth and prestige of a family in just one generation, and a tremendous expectation that an Ivy League college or a medical degree will follow”.
Students and parents show an overwhelming interest in applying for combined BS/MD programs where undergraduate admission guarantees admission to an institution’s medical school. Of course this is contingent upon the student maintaining a specified GPA. Limited to a small number of highly motivated and talented students some universities have and undergraduate and medical program that can be completed in just 7 years.
At top schools these programs are highly selective and students need to be mature beyond their years. Those who can not strive in that type of environment will not succeed and will be replaced.
Here’s the thing, just because a university has a good reputation does not mean that it is the right one for you. Many parents think their children’s lives will be ruined if they don’t get into one of the top 10 colleges and that is not the case.
Who Is Making The Decision?
Contrary to the typical American teen, South Asian-American students do not get into conflicts with their parents over colleges and career goals. These students have a high level of discipline, respect and trust that when the parent encourages them to pursue a specific program and/or college.
In terms of professional goals, parents often have more to say than students. My experience has led me to understand other cultures and I have come to respect them because they all have validity in what they believe. The student who doesn’t necessarily want to apply to the University of Chicago but does it anyway to appease his dad is not wrong for doing so. But when the dust settles and the fog clears it is really about the student. Keep that in the back of your mind If success and happiness is what you want your child to have.
Hayley Ekhart, now a freshman at Indiana University, has parents who work in what most would consider successful industries. Her father is a computer analyst and her mother is in biomedical engineering. Hayley was first encouraged by her friends to study something they all had in common; journalism. Her choice was not easy to come by but she finally distinguished herself as a student of medicine. Her ultimate goal is to become anAudiologist.
Where does the college planning process begin? Well it is certainly not at the end of the 11th grade. You need to be on the colleges radar long before this. Receiving special invitations to see the campus is a good indication that the school really wants you. Another student of mine who graduated from Foothill Technology high school last year was flown out to the east coast and picked up by a driver to spend a day on campus at Williams College in Massachusetts. Now that he attends the best college in the nation, (US News Report) his parents rave about how happy he is and couldn’t see him going anywhere else. Of course he began planning in his sophomore year.
The opportunity is yours for the taking. Make the decision to be an informed consumer that places your children in the best school for them. Build a support team of advisors and allow your student to build a dream list of careers and universities. Continue to strive for the top and even with detours and challenges along the way you will wind up at a respectable school with endless opportunities. Put college planning at the top of your priority list and know that you gave everything you could to separate your child from being just another student in the crowd.
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